Maggie's Garden

9 Months Old_20081031

昨天終於將弟弟的名字取好了，彥愷。

馬上去報戶口，遲了13天罰款75元，再晚三天就跳到600元。

出關以後就很難碰電腦，在媽媽那邊帶弟弟，就只能餵奶和休息或翻翻育兒書充充電，喝湯吃飯讓奶水充足。一定要午睡不然半夜會很難過，仍要起來個二三次。

出發前問過家人是否想搭便車，所以把行程給大家看；結果當天早上媽和慶仍是猶豫不決，如果他們臨時想去我就要把行程提前或更改路線，拖拖拉拉的只會讓該辦的事都辦不了，或者變成趕趕趕，就是不想這樣啊！

最後，只有我們三個去。

上星期五好不容易黃先生在忙碌了一天之後還有力氣，幫我把重的要命的IKEA立燈從三樓扛下來，準備載回家用，因為它已經沾了厚厚一層灰，沒人用很久了。想不到就在我們要將它放入後車箱時，立桿由中間應聲折斷，而美美的玻璃燈罩也就應聲敲成碎片，當場我的心也碎了，嗚嗚.... 怎麼會這樣！

不知道Becky當初是怎麼扛回來的？

上星期三近中午，到銀行換了一些店裡要用的5元硬幣，接著到第三市場旁的郵局ATM領要繳信用卡的錢；就在郵局外頭，我背對著離我十幾步距離的摩托車正在操作機器，短短十幾分鐘的時間，摩托車座椅被強拉開，一包$2000塊的5元硬幣就這樣被拿走了！

當時，我走回車子的地方，看到一片和我裝硬幣一樣的破紙袋掉在地上就覺得很怪，接著，一位好心的小姐走過來告訴我，十分鐘前目睹事件發生的經過：「有兩個戴安全帽的男人，很用力的在扳你的座椅，我覺得很奇怪一直看他們，想說鑰匙掉了也不用這樣吧？他們看我在注意他們，很快拿了一包東西就走了。好可怕喔！你要小心一點，而且你還懷孕，更危險。真的好可怕，這邊人來人往的，光天化日之下還敢這樣！」聽完她的描述，我有點呆掉同時告訴自己別慌要鎮定，看著座椅有點怕打開它，想了一下才敢面對現實；果然，紙袋是硬被拉破的！銀行的送款簿被棄置在地上，他們就取走那一包硬幣。我一直向那位小姐說謝謝，然後只想趕緊離開那個現場，想到自己也許是被歹徒從銀行一路尾隨到郵局，心裡就直發毛。

回家後，努力回想與反省自己有什麼舉動會成為歹徒下手的目標？首先，上星期連續三天都在跑銀行，是因為這樣被盯上的嗎？還是那天換錢我是用口述的，沒有寫在紙上給銀行員看，被在旁邊的歹徒聽到了？或著是我為了省時間，等號碼的時候先去換錢，結果就被注意上了？又或者是在人來人往的街上我掀開座椅取手提包時剛好被瞄到？想了好多喔！接下來幾天我都不敢上銀行了，也把座椅上的花布套取下，怕又被盯上。

上回為了樺剪髮的事不愉快，原來是他把我說的150聽成550，這太扯了吧？我明明就說150。

Dear Kitty,

I hope you have time coming up to see my blog and this short message, cause I rarely check my e-mail these days.

Winnin loves the Christmas e-card you sent from the Hallmark website.  She just kept laughing everytime she sees those three snowman playing tricks, and she asks me to show her the page everytime I turn on my NB.

進入冬季後，黃'r和樺就常會皮膚癢，特別是黃'r還會掉屑屑。所以想買天然的手工皂用用看，有一家叫阿原手工皂的，可是網拍上好多人再賣他的東西，反而是他自己的網頁更新日停留在去年初，讓人不敢下單買，很奇怪ㄋㄟ。

昨天中午到南投參加了五專同學的訂婚宴，全素的喔！之前二天打電話跟她說婆婆往生的事，問一下她家裡長輩是否介意，另外又聽鄰居說孕婦參加喜宴會喜衝喜，也問她有沒有關係，後來她回我電話說，在肚子上圍一條紅線就好了，仍然歡迎我去。

她現在台北法院當書記官，老公是基隆長庚的藥劑師，他們才認識九個月哩，有點算閃電結婚囉！新房是老公在未認識她之前就買好了的，算是一切水到渠成。

重點是她在四月份到晶華眼科讓一位石醫師做近視雷射手術，算算她就是大約在那時和老公認識的吧？眼睛看的更清楚了，才能找到對的人喔！我有這樣的感觸。

打理好晚餐，整個人覺得很沒動力。

我的天啊！怎麼會發生這種事？？？

黃先生被電話詐騙了！

有人趁這段非常時期打電話要黃先生開車到南投轉帳，說是原本一次付清的博客來書款，被超商店員勾錯變成分期扣款，要他打電話到方便的銀行更正，就這樣慢慢陷入圈套，現在他仍在警局報案還沒回來，真的是屋漏偏逢連夜雨啊。

The pressure from a dying old lady may not show on my face,

but, tonight I have to go on-line.

As I was browsing along my favorite blogs,

Picking Hwa up around 12:40 pm. from the kindergarten.  Arriving the hospital five minutes past 2 o'clock.  I was very disappointed with the lady who's in charge of the 3D ultra sound.  She kept talking through the whole porcedure about how hard it could be to make a good recording.  The baby was not cooperating, the position was not good for the recording.  She suggested me to take a walk or eat something sweet.  At the meantime, Hwa started to make a fuss since she didn't sleep on our way to Taichung.  I took her with me to the hospital because I wanted her to get involved with my pregnacy and get to see the baby through this new technology.  Gradually, I was lossing my patience.  I decided to spend $800 NT dollars on 2 photos instead.  But deep down, I don't think all this worth not even $400 NT dollars.

Then, I drove to Chung-Yo department store, and Hwa felt asleep.  I waited at the parking lot for about 30 minutes.  We finally got to the area where Hwa was looking forward to very much.  I gave her 10 tokens to play around.

I was happy we made it to the Yung-Mang Dancing Studio on time at 5 pm.  Although, the dancing class turned out not so inspiring as I imagined.  At least, I didn't have to guess anymore.  Now, I know how they designed the courses.  Maybe, when the highway between Taichung and Puli got connected and after my delivery I would be able to take Hwa to the classes.

心慌，腦袋裡不敢裝太多，不敢有太多計畫。

目前只有帶樺一起去看我做3D超音波的事可以進行，

因為可以拿給婆看，只希望這沒觸及什麼禁紀之類的事；

Everything was back on track.  We tried to do everything as usual.  We work, eat, rest then went home.  I went to the bank, post office and take-out resturant.  I kept cleaning my many paper boxes that full of stuff from the past.

Father-in-law called to disscuss about buying an used car that costs about NT20,000.

Hwa was on the good mood after the kindergarten, she did lots of things that she could think of.

Everything was back on track.  We tried to do everything as usual.  We work, eat, rest then went home.  I went to the bank, post office and take-out resturant.  I kept cleaning my many paper boxes that full of stuff from the past.

Father-in-law called to disscuss about buying an used car that costs about NT20,000.

Hwa was on the good mood after the kindergarten, she did lots of things that she could think of.

能坐在從IKEA扛回來的電腦椅上打這段文字，算是這些天來最放鬆愉悅的事吧！在桃園三天兩夜，身心煎熬。婆暫時穩定，我們隨時待命。

昨天的行程：

1. 台中榮總心臟內科，醫生說沒事。

2. 台安醫院3D超音波室，看現場。

昨天整個腦袋裡仍覺得有點混混噩噩的感覺，一下子失去做事情的方向和動力，整個人有點呆掉；下午勉力備了英語課，把教材編印出來。

早晨五點多起來上廁所後就睡不著了，想著今天要和媽媽上台中榮總心臟內科複診的一天要如何安排。想順道至台安醫院問3D掃描錄製光碟片的事，最好能看一下樣本；還有要辦Cosco的會員卡。

因為婆的病情尚不明朗，要盡早回家較妥，如老公臨時要北上才有車開。

前幾個星期努力想把樺的作息調整的早一點，自己也就不能一回來就上網寫東西，差一點就把這裡忘掉了。